Super Soft

Does anyone have good ideas to help me get my hair super soft?

and healthy?
i have super long and wavy hair.
i use a straightening iron sometimes which makes it really dry at the ends

can anyone help me to get my hair really soft and not dry?
shampoos?
conditioners?
secrets?
anything

thankss

When you get in the shower, get your hair wet and then brush it; then do a deep shampoo wash and brush it again. (Btw; i reccomend s factor for shampoo) and then brush it really good again. Deep conditioning; make sure to get roots. Rinse it VERY WELL. Turning on the jet or taking it off if you can works well. Then brush it really good again. S factor smoothing lusterizer does very good to apply after youre done washing your hair. It makes it less frizzy and softer. Dry it(use Roller Brush to dry and put it in layers and do one at a time) Then use heat defended for straightners (spray it before straightening) and straighten your hair in layers. :]. Make sure you have a cerammic straghtner too.